记忆象是倒在掌心的水,无论你摊开还是紧握,终究还是会从指缝间流淌干净。 所谓爱一个人,如果不是全部,那就等于零。
人在贪欲中失去幸福,在忙碌中失去健康,在怀疑中失去信任,在计较中失去友情,在痴迷中失去分明,在执着中失去宁静,在傲慢中失去自我,在追逐中失去风景;感情有时候就是,一个前人栽树后人乘凉的过程,可是我教你学会爱,不是叫你去爱别人的。
每天认真打扮自己,多读书,继续善良,保持爱心。不在人前矫情,四处诉说以求宽慰,学会一个人静静面对,自己把道理想通。这样的你,单身无所谓,你在虔诚地做更好的自己,一定会遇到最好的,而那个人也一定值得你所有等待。
以前我看到,所爱隔山海,山海不可平,当时我觉得,海有舟可渡,山有路可行,后来才发现,山海皆可平,难平是人心。
不喜欢一个人就别拖着,趁早放手,也别对人家忽冷忽热的,给她无畏的希望又让她反反复复的失望。
真正的爱不会让你的自我迷失,只会让你的自我拓展。爱不会让你成为二流的别人,只会让你成为最好的自己。真正的爱不是给对方束缚,而是给对方自由成长的空间,与此同时,对方也会给你自由成长的空间。
有时候,没有下一次,没有机会重来,没有暂停继续。有时候,错过了现在,就永远永远的没机会了一路走来,踏着袅袅歌声,在星光渐陨的早晨,为天边涂上羲霞;在夕阳坠林的桑榆,信手为青峰染上烟岚。
十里春风不如你,你一笑便是春天;万家灯火不如你,嘴角上翘便如烟火;星海浩瀚不如你,你的眼内便含星河。
你不是你的工作,你不是你的表现,你不是你的成功,也不是你的成败。这些外在的东西,丝毫动摇不到你那个内在的真我,看清楚小我的虚假认同。
我们俩的生活乐趣的是什么呢,是我们通过自己的努力共同辆买车。我们这个月在一块存钱能够买一车轮子,下个月再存钱就买一个方向盘,再下个月买一后备箱,再下个月也许就够买一辆车,也可能车的钱不贵,很便宜只是一辆qq,我们就全当练手了,练会了之后等以后日子慢慢变好了,有钱了我们再买好的,这就是我们俩人的快乐。
当一个人回复你的消息很慢或直接不回时,别担心他出了什么事,他只是在陪比你重要的人或者在做比你重要的事。
延伸阅读
柯南的经典励志语录
真相永远只有一个。
齿轮总有卡住的地方,如果勉强让它动起来,最终是要让一切都化为泡影,还是要从头来过,恢复正常,努力追回落后的部分,你只是害怕,害怕从头来过!
被骗的励志语录经典短句
富贵不淫贫贱乐,男儿到此是豪雄。
生于忧患,死于安乐。
君子喻于义,小人喻于利。
人生是没有毕业的学校。
人间没有永恒的夜晚,世界没有永恒的冬天。
人生应该如蜡烛一样,从顶燃到底,一直都是光明的。
生活的理想,就是为了理想的生活。
努力为生,还要努力为死。
不惜牺牲自由以图苟安的人,既不配享受自由,也不配获得安全。
生命不可能有两次,但是许多人连一次也不善于度过。
生命的目的是享受生命。
人生自古谁无死,留取丹心照汗青。
近朱者赤,近墨者黑。
最可怕的敌人,就是没有坚强的信念。
读书破万卷,下笔如有神。
读书百遍,其义自见。
英语励志语录简短
1、不要只看到别人外在的污点,却看不到自己内心的垃圾。
don”t only see other people”s external stains, but not your own inner garbage.
2、倘若流水满足于寒冰的姿态,就不会有它的奔腾咆哮。
if the water is satisfied with the posture of ice, there will be no roar.
3、不是因为有希望而去努力,而是通过努力去创造希望。
not because there is hope to work, but through efforts to create hope.
4、积极与健康为伴,消极同羸弱相随。
positive and healthy company, negative with weak.
5、我们的一辈子不长,在每晚睡前,都去原谅所有的人和事。
our life is not long, every night before we go to bed, we forgive all the people and things.
6、莫遣只轮归海窟,仍留一箭射天山。
don”t send a wheel back to the sea cave, but leave an arrow to shoot at the tianshan mountain.
7、人们总是在努力珍惜未得到的,而遗忘了所拥有的。
people always try to cherish what they haven”t got and forget what they have.
8、斧头虽小,但多次砍劈,终能将一棵坚硬的大树伐倒。
although the axe is small, it can cut down a hard tree after many times.
9、如果没有开始的勇气,何来疯狂的过程,又怎知终点的模样?
if you don”t have the courage to start, how can you get the crazy process, and how do you know the appearance of the end point?
10、害怕了就告诉自己,太阳还在天空,只不过停留在另一个方向。
when you are afraid, tell yourself that the sun is still in the sky, just staying in another direction.
11、高调做事,低调做人,宠辱不惊。
high profile work, low-key life, favor or disgrace.
12、预测未来的最好方法,就是创造未来。
the best way to predict the future is to create the future.
13、别试图改变我,你唯一能做的只有顺从或离开。
don”t try to change me, the only thing you can do is to comply or leave.
14、我们都是小太阳,浑身充满正能量。
we are all little suns, full of positive energy.
15、不是境况造就人,而是人造就境况。
it is not circumstances that make people, but man-made circumstances.
16、没有过不去的事情,只有过不去的心情。
there are no things that can”t be passed, only feelings that can”t be passed.
17、有时候,是我们自己想太多,才让自己如此难受。
sometimes, it”s us who think too much that makes us so miserable.
18、创造一种生活方式,而不只是一个企业。地基可以有多深。
create a lifestyle, not just a business. how deep can the foundation be.
19、自己活着,就是为了使别人活得更美好。
to live is to make others live better.
20、你付出的再多,她再好,那也不过是浪费时间和精力。
no matter how much you pay, no matter how good she is, it”s just a waste of time and energy.
21、避免失败的最稳当办法,就是下决心获得成功。
the surest way to avoid failure is to be determined to succeed.
22、用自己的双手改变自己的生活,创造新生活。
use your own hands to change your life and create a new life.
23、如果成不了心态的主人,必定会沦为情绪的奴隶。
if you can”t be the master of your mind, you will become a slave to your emotions.
24、每个人都会有自己的泪要擦,都有自己的路要走。
everyone will have their own tears to wipe, have their own way to go.
25、英雄不问出处,只要你看得起自己,别人就会对你另眼相看。
heroes don”t ask where they come from. as long as you look up to yourself, others will treat you differently.
26、一个人看待自己所从事的事业的态度,决定着你能否成功。
a person”s attitude towards his career determines whether you can succeed.
27、要生活得漂亮,需要付出极大的忍耐,一不抱怨,二不解释。
to live a beautiful life, it takes a lot of patience, one does not complain, the other does not explain.
28、人生路上什么都不怕,就怕自己投降。
on the road of life, i”m afraid of nothing but surrender.
29、读不在三更五鼓,功只怕一曝十寒。
if you don”t read five drums at three o”clock, you”ll only be afraid to expose yourself to the cold.
30、太阳虽有黑点,却在奋力燃烧中树立了光辉的形象。
although the sun has black spots, it has set up a brilliant image in its vigorous combustion.
31、我们的生命,就是以不断出发的姿势得到重生。
our life is to be reborn in a posture of constant departure.
32、每一个发奋努力的背后,必有加倍的赏赐。
behind every effort, there must be a double reward.
33、没有命定的不幸,只有死不放手的执着。
there is no fate of misfortune, only the persistence of death.
34、谁不是一边受伤,一边学会坚强。
who is not hurt, while learning to be strong.
35、我内心固执的追求,只有我自己看得见。但我但愿我没有错。
my stubborn pursuit in my heart can only be seen by myself. but i hope i”m not wrong.
36、请再努力一下为了你想见的人,想做的事想成为的自己。
please try again for the people you want to meet, the things you want to do, and the self you want to be.
37、没有人可以打倒你,能打倒你的只有你自己。
no one can knock you down, only you can.
38、不努力,谁也给不了你想要的生活。
no one can give you the life you want without hard work.
39、智慧乃是老年的精神养料,所以年轻时应该努力。
wisdom is the spiritual nourishment of old age, so we should try our best when we are young.
40、像孩子一样,真诚;像夕阳一样,温暖。
like a child, sincere; like the sunset, warm.
41、站在上司的立场想问题,站在自己的立场做事情。
stand in the boss”s position to think about problems, stand in their own position to do things.
42、要时刻记得感恩于那些在人生路上帮助过你的人。
always remember to be grateful to those who have helped you in your life.
43、人往往年轻时用健康换财富,老时用财富换健康。
people often use health for wealth when they are young, and health for wealth when they are old.
44、你不懂我想要的幸福,也给不了我承诺。
you don”t understand the happiness i want, and you can”t promise me.
45、现在不是将来,我一定要超越自己。
now is not the future, i must surpass myself.
46、就算没有翅膀,也不会轻易选择颓废。
even if there are no wings, it will not be easy to choose decadence.
47、人生太短,要干的事太多,我要分秒必争。
life is too short, there are too many things to do, i want to fight every minute.
48、无论做什么事情,只要肯努力奋斗,是没有不成功的!
no matter what you do, as long as you are willing to work hard, there is no failure!
49、不要难过,你看,一棵树就从来不哭。
don”t be sad, you see, a tree never cries.
50、机会,是自己创造的,别企望幸运之神会降临你的头上。
opportunity is created by yourself. don”t expect luck to come to you.
51、天总会亮的,就算黑夜很漫长,那不还有路灯嘛!
the day will always be bright, even if the night is very long, there is no street lamp!
52、人往高处走。我们都不甘心落后于别人,于是就有了竞争。
people go high. we are not willing to fall behind others, so there is competition.
53、成功的人最常做的事,往往就是不成功的人最不愿意去做的事。
what successful people do most often is what unsuccessful people least want to do.
54、人生最大的光荣,不在于从不失败,而在于能屡仆屡起。
the greatest glory of life lies not in never failing, but in being able to rise up and down again and again.
55、困难来的时候,有的人因之一飞冲天,有的人因之倒地不起。
when difficulties come, some people soar to the sky because of one of them, while others fall to the ground because of it.
56、全世界的人都离开你了我也会在你身边,有地狱我们一起猖獗。
people all over the world have left you, and i will be by your side. there will be hell and we will be rampant together.
57、做人需要用心,做事需要埋头。心胸需要拓宽,心态需要放平!
to be a man, we need to be attentive, and to do things we need to bury our heads. the mind needs to be widened, and the mentality needs to be leveled!
58、不做最好的自己,只做更好的自己!
don”t be your best self, just be a better one!
59、风吹雨打知生活,苦尽甘来懂人生!
wind and rain know life, bitter sweet to understand life!
60、鹰有时候比鸡飞的还低,但鸡永远飞不到鹰那么高。
eagles sometimes fly lower than chickens, but chickens never fly as high as eagles.